Safety

BOLD, BUT CONTROLLED.

OnlyDare.me is built for live, public, interactive dares. That only works if the rails are real. Here's exactly how the platform stays safe.

Three layers of control

Layer 01

The Creator

Owns their stream. Can reject, skip, mute, kick, or ban — instantly, on every dare and every viewer.

Layer 02

The Format

Only pre-approved dare formats can be triggered live. Custom requests go through review before they ever reach the queue.

Layer 03

The Platform

Site-wide moderators suspend abusive accounts across every stream. Reports are reviewed within 24 hours.

New formats · same rails

Format-specific safety

DIRECT DARE

Always optional. Always reviewed.

  • Creators can reject any direct dare — no reason required, full refund.
  • Every request passes automated + human moderation before reaching the creator.
  • Creators can accept, decline, counter-offer, or convert to a public funded dare.
  • Private mode means private link only — never indexed, never resold.
  • Anything that violates the prohibited list is auto-blocked at submission.
AI-DIRECTED IRL

AI directs. Humans verify.

  • AI-generated and AI-filtered missions must stay within legal and safety boundaries.
  • Every mission is checked against the prohibited list before it reaches the creator.
  • Viewer suggestions are rewritten or blocked — never sent raw.
  • The creator can skip, replace, or end any AI mission instantly.
  • No location, identity, or stranger may be targeted by an AI-generated task.
HUMAN DRONE SHOW

Volunteer-based. Public-space safe.

  • Free to join, free to watch. No participant is paid — no payouts, no tips, no quotas.
  • Crowd events must avoid panic, harassment, blocked passage, dangerous movement, or public disorder.
  • One-tap dropout. Any participant can leave at any moment with no penalty.
  • AI cues are pre-screened: no targeting strangers, no aggressive contact, no traffic interference.
  • Local laws and venue rules are checked before a show is approved.

Public-space pledge

All public-space experiences — Direct Dares, AI-Directed IRL runs, and Human Drone Shows — must remain safe, non-violent, and non-abusive. No exceptions, no edge cases, no creator override.

The five rules

01

Legal Only

Every dare must be legal where the creator performs it. Illegal acts are removed and accounts are banned without warning.

02

Safe Dares

Dares are reviewed before they go live. The creator always has final call — they can reject, edit, pause, or skip anything in real time.

03

No Self-Harm

No self-harm, no dangerous substances, no stunts that could cause lasting injury. If it puts a body or mind at risk, it doesn't run.

04

No Harassment

Creators can mute, kick, or ban any viewer instantly. Targeted harassment from a viewer ends in a permanent platform ban.

05

No Hate

Hate speech, slurs, and abuse against any group are removed on sight. Repeat offenders are banned site-wide.

Creator toolkit

Your stream. Your call.

Reject a dare

Refunds the viewer instantly. No questions, no penalties.

Skip / pause

Pause the queue any time. Skip anything that crosses your line.

Mute viewer

Silence chat from any account for the rest of the stream.

Kick

Force-disconnect a viewer. They can't rejoin this stream.

Stream ban

Permanent block from your channel — chat, dares, and replays.

Cap & cooldowns

Set max dare price, cooldowns, and which formats viewers can trigger.

Pre-approved

What viewers can trigger live

  • Voice / vocal dare
  • Costume / outfit task
  • Mystery wheel spin
  • Public IRL micro-task
  • Reaction / taste test
  • Skill or trick attempt
Prohibited

Never allowed — ever

  • Self-harm or unsafe stunts
  • Drugs or hazardous substances
  • Sexual content or nudity
  • Targeted harassment
  • Hate speech or slurs
  • Threats or doxxing
  • Illegal acts of any kind
  • Content involving minors

Report something

See it. Flag it. We act in 24 hours.

Every report is reviewed by a human moderator. Verified violations result in dare removal, refunds, and account suspension.

Contact moderation

OnlyDare.me reserves the right to remove content, refund viewers, and suspend accounts that break these rules — at any time, without notice.